India is a nation filled with rich traditions that can vary depending on the region. It's safe to say that many, even those outside of Indian culture, know the basics of etiquette at a wedding. That is to say, one should dress modestly, and even those who aren't Indian are encouraged to dress traditionally.
The richness of Indian culture can sometimes complicate wedding matters. Different parts of India have varying traditions when it comes to dressing and weddings.
However, the one universal tradition of Indian weddings is that extravagance, luxury, and joy are on full display. A recent wedding of two tycoons' children was estimated to cost 100 million dollars. Though few weddings are even fractionally this expensive, it gives an idea of the magnificence and importance these days hold for families. If you have been invited to a Punjabi wedding, Lashkaraa can help you know what to wear with this dress guide for this exciting event.
What to Expect Attending a Punjabi Wedding
Attending a Punjabi wedding is an unforgettable experience, filled with vibrant traditions, joyous celebrations, and elaborate ceremonies. These weddings are known for their grandeur, spanning multiple days with different events that each hold deep cultural and spiritual significance.
During the wedding, you will be an observer as much as a participant. Knowing what is happening and the overarching spiritual significance can help you enjoy the experience (and inform how you dress). Before the wedding, you should learn about the soon-to-be-newlyweds' faith and the type of ceremonies performed. The predominant religions of the Punjab region are Islam, Hinduism, and Sikhism, the last of which actually originated in Punjab.
Since Punjabi weddings are long and packed with activities, comfort should be a key factor when choosing outfits. Women often opt for lehengas, anarkalis, or heavily embroidered sarees, while men typically wear sherwanis, bandhgalas, or elegant kurta-pajama sets.
Given the non-stop dancing, particularly during the Sangeet and Baraat, breathable fabrics like georgette, silk, or lightweight cotton blends are excellent choices. Outfits that allow free movement while still looking stylish are ideal for these high-energy celebrations.
Respecting traditions and cultural customs is important, especially when attending religious ceremonies. If the wedding is held in a Sikh Gurudwara, both men and women must cover their heads as a sign of respect. Modest and traditional attire is appreciated, and it’s best to avoid deep necklines or overly revealing outfits for the main wedding rituals.
Bright and traditional Indian colors like red, pink, gold, emerald green, and royal blue are popular choices, as they symbolize joy, prosperity, and celebration. While black and white are generally avoided for wedding functions, they can be worn for pre-wedding events like the cocktail night.
From the lively Sangeet, where families come together to sing and dance, to the sacred Anand Karaj ceremony in a Gurudwara or the Hindu pheras around the fire, every moment is steeped in tradition and festivity. The energy, music, and elaborate décor create an atmosphere of pure celebration, making guests feel like they are a part of something truly special.
Punjabi Wedding Outfit Ideas
For the wedding, women most commonly wear Punjabi suits, anarkalis, or salwar kameez. Men most commonly wear kurta pajamas layered with a coat, jacket, or vest. Sherwanis have also become popular for guests in general. The styles we discuss below will all fall into these categories.
Outfit Ideas for Women
For women attending a Punjabi wedding, an embroidered Anarkali suit in rich colors like maroon, royal blue, or emerald green is a stunning choice. It offers a regal look while ensuring comfort during long ceremonies.
The Dusty Pink Embroidered Velvet Anarkali exudes elegance with its rich fabric and intricate detailing. Perfect for weddings and festive occasions, its flowing silhouette adds a regal charm to any celebration. Pairing it with statement jewelry and a matching dupatta completes the outfit beautifully.
A georgette or silk saree like the brand’s Moss Green Embroidered Silk Saree is another timeless option. Opt for one with intricate embroidery or a bold border in festive shades like red, fuchsia, or gold. When styled with a heavy blouse, jhumkas, and a clutch, it creates a sophisticated and graceful appearance.
For a grand celebration like the Sangeet or reception, a lehenga choli like Navy Blue Embroidered Lehenga makes an excellent statement. A floral-printed georgette lehenga for daytime events or a heavily embroidered one for evening functions can be paired with a stylish blouse and dupatta to create a striking look.
Another stylish option is a peplum-style gharara set, the brand’s Purple Embroidered Peplum Style Gharara is just the right choice. With its intricate embellishments and modern silhouette, it is perfect for pre-wedding functions or the main ceremony. Styled with bold eye makeup and a potli bag, it brings a contemporary yet traditional charm to the wedding festivities.
A sharara suit like Dusty Peach Embroidered Silk Sharara Suit is also a fashionable and practical choice. Its flared pants allow for ease of movement, making it ideal for dancing at the Mehendi or Sangeet. Opt for intricate mirror work or thread embroidery, and accessorize with a maang tikka and traditional juttis for a complete ensemble.
Outfit Ideas for Male Guests
For men's traditional ethnic wear, a classic kurta pajama with a Nehru jacket is a versatile and stylish option. A pastel or neutral-toned kurta like in Soft Mint Hand Embroidered Velvet Jodhpuri Set paired with a contrasting jacket adds a refined touch to the outfit. This ensemble works well for both daytime and evening events.
A Pathani suit is another great option, offering a mix of tradition and masculinity. The structured yet comfortable silhouette makes it perfect for functions like the Sangeet or reception. Completing the look with a statement watch or a well-coordinated pocket square enhances the outfit effortlessly.
A sherwani like Light Blue Hand Embroidered Velvet Sherwani or Peachy Pink Hand Embroidered Velvet Sherwani is ideal for a more formal look, especially for a grand wedding celebration. Intricately embroidered or lightly embellished sherwanis in shades like ivory, navy, or deep green create a regal look. Paired with churidar pants or straight-fit trousers, it exudes sophistication.
Choosing the Perfect Attire for a Punjabi Wedding
Dressing for a Punjabi wedding is all about blending tradition with style while staying comfortable through the celebrations. Whether you go for an embroidered lehenga, a flowy Anarkali, or a regal sherwani, the right outfit will keep you looking elegant and at ease.
Ultimately, your attire won't be the most important outfit at a wedding. That special distinction belongs to the bride and groom. However, the examples we've given provide wonderful ways to embrace Punjabi dress, whether visiting or revisiting it. For Indian weddings of all types, Lashkaraa provides dedicated, luxurious, traditional apparel.
Sources:
This $100 Million Indian Wedding Will Put Crazy Rich Asians to Shame | Time
Sikhism | History, Doctrines, Practice, & Literature | Britannica
